CHRONICLES OF A SIDE CHICK

Monday, March 23, 2015


Being a side-chick or in the sister zone isn't fun if you ask me( talking from experience) its like being in a relationship with yourself. Often times guys like to have it all with ladies and this has led to the word 'side chick' 
There are basically two parties in a relationship no matter the gender( same sex or not). If a guy decides to bring into a relationship another girl just for the sake of extra then she's a side chick simply because he can never be serious with her in their own relationship.
Side chick has now become a huge part of our society that some ladies are aware that of what they are to this guy.
REASONS WHY SOME LADIES PREFER TO BE SIDE CHICKS
  1. EMOTIONAL INSECURITY:  For some reason, they feel they can't love any one or be loved they way this guy loves them. so they stay.
  2. HE SPENDS A LOT:  Ladies love to live large and brag to their friends. Oh! instagram... the beginning of their wahala. Some ladies would rather stay and stick to their ultimate source of income.
  3. THE SEX IS 'TOO' GOOD:  I'll allow you have a moment of denial. Sadly, this is true. I have nothing more to say about this( clears throat)
  4. THEY ARE EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED: Like I said earlier being the side chick is like dating your self and when you fall in love ( gobe!) hoping one day he will leave the one he loves for you? all the best with that.
In this video , I carefully discussed all of these issues and possible solutions to these problem.
Note: this is only a problem if you are not comfortable as a side chick but if otherwise... enjoy your life. 

Click to watch the video... I'll love to know your thoughts are in the comment section and please SUBSCRIBE to my youtube channel( its free * winks*) 




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14 comments

  1. hahaaa..so sad i can't watch videos here but when my wi fi is up i will be watching it.
    is this from experience though?
    www.deemako.com

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    1. My sister Dee, it is from experience sadly.

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  2. Very interesting post. People expect the love they think they deserve, hence the reason why there are a lot of side-chicks these days.

    Princess Audu

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    1. Thanks Princess Audu. Apparently a lot of ladies are desperate and it's sad.

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  3. This is a bad circle to be in, but sometimes you might not even know that you're the side chick. E no easy sha!! May God help every lady to be the main boss. Lovely post! :)

    missymayification.blogspot.co.uk

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    1. It's even worse if one has no idea she's a side chick. Thanks Missy May.

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  4. I need to save and watch this video....what??
    Please oh! We need to eradicate the phenomenon of 'side chick'...nonsense!
    Any which way you look at it; its wrong. And I'm not coming from a judgmental standpoint, hopefully

    BLEURGH - http://www.bleurghnow.com
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    1. Hope every lady finds her perfect man and stop forcing themselves to be side chicks

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  5. Some people love being side chick, i think they rather be a no 2
    fashionitazbybuiti.blogspot.com

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    1. It's amazing how some people feel comfortable in that situation.

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  6. Great post, thanks for sharing!

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  7. Interesting post and perspective!


    Agnes x

    http://blvckbee.com

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  8. Never been in that situation but I don't like what it represents
    Afolabi Tosyne's blog

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