Being a side-chick or in the sister zone isn’t fun if you ask me( talking from experience) its like being in a relationship with yourself. Often times guys like to have it all with ladies and this has led to the word ‘side chick’
There are basically two parties in a relationship no matter the gender( same sex or not). If a guy decides to bring into a relationship another girl just for the sake of extra then she’s a side chick simply because he can never be serious with her in their own relationship.
Side chick has now become a huge part of our society that some ladies are aware that of what they are to this guy.
REASONS WHY SOME LADIES PREFER TO BE SIDE CHICKS
- EMOTIONAL INSECURITY: For some reason, they feel they can’t love any one or be loved they way this guy loves them. so they stay.
- HE SPENDS A LOT: Ladies love to live large and brag to their friends. Oh! instagram… the beginning of their wahala. Some ladies would rather stay and stick to their ultimate source of income.
- THE SEX IS ‘TOO’ GOOD: I’ll allow you have a moment of denial. Sadly, this is true. I have nothing more to say about this( clears throat)
- THEY ARE EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED: Like I said earlier being the side chick is like dating your self and when you fall in love ( gobe!) hoping one day he will leave the one he loves for you? all the best with that.
In this video , I carefully discussed all of these issues and possible solutions to these problem.
Note: this is only a problem if you are not comfortable as a side chick but if otherwise… enjoy your life.
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